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Moss's avatar

Your point about trans persons A and B hits home for me. I was struggling immensely until I put my feet to the pavement and started volunteering in my community. Doing so gave me

1) a much-needed dose of perspective - things may be shit in all directions but I have a great deal of things to be grateful for.

2) a sense of purpose that drives me to keep getting out of bed every morning, keep showing up for work, keep taking my medications.

3) an outlet for the inevitable feelings of rage and helplessness that manifest. You gotta get those feelings out. Exert control of something, throw your anger into a task that helps your community

4) a sense that I am not alone and that we will get through this together.

Too many people think that activism means doing things you don't like/aren't good at/aren't comfortable with, and that they require you to do something big to be meaningful. Neither of these are true. You can find small things within your power to do. I am a conflict-averse hermit. Phone calls are terrifying, I don't wanna call my reps or canvas for votes or go to protests. But I'm pretty damn crafty, and it turns out people will pay for those crafts. So now I've partnered with a local mutual aid org and I'm making jewelry to raise money for bus passes for trans people in my city. Sometimes you have to think outside the box but there are things you can do!

Kay Alexander's avatar

Absolutely 😁 I’ve been deliberately trying to write positive articles for three years and got the most likes, views, and new subscribers ever for one called The Trans Monster Trope at a Time of Trans Genocide.

I maintain it's still quite upbeat and praises community, conscious discourse around consent, and so on but it was my most clickbait title ever.

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